2021.09.24 10:10 Stpeppersthebest Am I too idealistic about friendship. Teenagers.
I know it’s not a uniquely Irish topic, but would love your thoughts all the same.
My daughter is on the cusp of becoming a teenager. She has a wide group of friends , and is thankfully quite social . But the last year , she got quite close to a girl in her class . They both talked about possibly being bi , so they had that in common. This friendship opened up my daughter to a new social group , through this girl , and most notably , a boy, who is the ring leader , so to speak. My daughter joined a discord that they were all on, and to be frank , it’s toxic . I’m not so old and out of touch, if that’s what you’re thinking. I’m still in my 30’s , but I am wondering now about my own ideals of friendship , and what friendship means . But first I’ll elaborate on when things took a turn. The boys behaviour , in particular was negative. A negativity that my daughter had evaded up until this point. Mostly online. Bitching, name calling , shaming, accused a boy of masturbating in class , and the boy was desperately trying to deny it , it was awful to read because you could almost feel his desperation to defend this Mia truth ) the boy is super intelligent , and his powers of manipulation and argumentativeness are really beyond his years, Online, I mean, from what I have read. Some other toxic shit , like , saying he had hidden cameras in our houses when he visited (by our , I Mean , our house and the houses of other kids on the discord )
Long story short , he called a mutual friend of his and my daughters a fucking idiot up in the park. A few days prior, he had called the kid a fat fuck. To my daughter , this is just so mean. And when he called him a fucking idiot , she confronted him ,they got in to a heated exchange , and then she brought up the fat fuck comment and he punched her . 3 boys pulled him off and he punched another kid in the process.
So here we are a week later but the thing is, they were her group for hanging out with outside of school in the local neighbourhood . She has other friends but they don’t hang out after school or don’t live near . So she has suddenly gone from going out almost every day , to not going out at all. She doesn’t want to be where he is, and she is less than impressed by the lack of support from some of the mutual friends .
The girl friend has been by your mans side all week, didn’t contact my daughter to ask if she was ok after this event . This is not the first red flag I’ve had about this girl and to be honest I think my daughter can see she is not great friend material now.
But is this just the way it is when you’re a kid. You have to accept toxic dynamics and sacrifice your principles to fit in. My daughter wants to cut loose from them , and I think that’s for the best , but it’s hard to see her at a loose end socially on the weekend and evenings. I think what appeals to her about them was that they were a bit different and alternative , she felt she could relate to them .
What’s your thoughts /experiences on friendship in your preteen/teen years.
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Items and Blocks:
Rocks named after dragons. Different types of Dragocks are found in different places, such as Fire Dragocks can be found in the nether. ONLY 2 Draagocks can be combined together.
The Magic-ichanting Table is used to magic-ify wands. You will need Magic books to magic-ify wands.(Example: A Fire Wand useless unless it's magic-ified)
Magic books can be found in in pre-generated chests or can be obtained by trading from a wizard. different Magic Books magic-ify the wand with different skills, even if all the Magic Books are the same element.
Wands also can be found in in pre-generated chests or be found during trading from a wizard. Each wand can hold the power of 6 Magic Books. It can only have be magic-ified if you are using the books which have the same element's power as the Dragock. Wands with Combined Dragocks can hold the power of the same amount of Magic Books(6), but can hold the power of 2 elements. To craft a Wand you'll need a stick and a Dragock and place the vertically, with the Dragock on top of the stick. There are a few un-elemental Magic Books for which you need to craft an Un-elemental Wand. An Un-elemental Wand is crafted by the same recipe as an elemental Wand, but it has a Cobblestone instead of the Dragock. Combining a Cobblestone and a Dragock is possible, so you can use it to make a Semi-elemental Wand.
Used for taming some dragons.
Just armor for dragons. Ranges from iron
You can trade with wizards using Nether Stars. They can give you Wands, Dragocks, Dragon Saddles, Dragon Armor and food. Wizards are neutral, which means they will attack something only if hit by that thing. Wizards live in a different type of biome to live in, called Busy Badlands.
Dragons are found easily. There are different suitable biomes for them to live in, and many species can be found in the same biome. Even species of the the same kind have different varieties(Which means different colours). Some species are elemental, while some aren't. But you can tame all of them. Some are tamed by giving them food, while some are tamed using Dragon Saddles.
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